I bought that book The Script, and I cannot find it, but whenever I read that book and see the threads on here it is true they all do follow a damn script, it is as if like mothers we know what to do when having a child because it comes naturally to a mother, these guys follow the same script and go through this darn thing the same as if it is in them naturally because they are male and female I know. my ex did exactly the same, so many holidays, him and ow/wifey were going out of the country every other month in the first year, dont know what they do now, he bought her a white gold engagement ring and apparently that was a massive rock, massive wedding, well you know the rest. son and I got nothing and still don't. the money that man as gone through would have lasted us a lifetime if looked after properly, but no he as blown it all having fun with his bimbo, and now apparently as realised hes lost his son, should have thought about that when he wasnt wasting his money on his only flesh and blood.