alright...i'm goign to believe you ladies that's why she brought it up because she said tonite when we talked that "we need to think about how we are going to do the holidays at some point" to which i responded yep.......she asked "what's wrong" and i said nothing...and i'm sitting here thinking...it's august 10th...why are you worring about the holidays now???? this is probably her thought process because she is pulling back.....anyone agree????
Neil, there's four types of personalities. Red, Blue, Yellow & White. Simply put, blue people plan the Holidays in August, they are very organized & think way in advance. My daughter is blue. She going into 9th grade, but is already thinking about which classes she needs to take to get into her college of choice. My S12 is yellow. Life is a party, every second, every day. Why worry about tomorrow when today is so much fun. He'd lose his head if it wasn't attached. Do I worry about why they think the way they do....heck no.
If you're wondering why she's worrying about the holidays now.........ASK HER. Maybe she's a blue person.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Maybe she's a blue person.
