I do. But I wouldn't say I'm shy. I think I would say that most of my friends would think I have it all together. Most people would look at me and not suspect I like to melt into the background. Most of my friends would say I'm fun to be around. I just feel like...I don't really know how to explain it.

I saw a woman wearing this great outfit. Red longish top over these really cute capri pants, high heels. I just thought it was a great outfit, but one I could never wear without feeling totally conspicuous. So I stick to jeans and Ts. Sometimes I just want to be that girl that everyone stares at and feel completly comfortable with the attention. I guess that is what I was trying to get at. I admire that "why not" attitude

Maybe I just like being in my comfort zone. I guess we all do.

I'm not an expert, but I've been there. And I survived.