You're right, MC. I do tend to overanalyze things... and then for good measure overanalyze them again.
Actually, I appreciate finding another corroborating viewpoint that will help me solidify my resolve to NEVER let this happen to me ever again. I try to teach my sons that there is no sin in making honest-to-goodness mistakes so long as one can learn from them and avoid the same ones in the future. I need to honor that ideal in my own actions.