Ok as for the letter we did just that..but sent it via email..On Saturday I called the police and spoke to a detective about the text messages she sent back in april..He looked it up and the report came up..but unfortunately text messages are very hard to prosecute. She can deny that she sent them and it would end up costing lots of money for us in lawyers fees and my H could lose his Job as well..so basically the officer was very supportive..I told him that the OW texted me the night before and told me to call her. I didn't call though..I know she wants to upset me so I can throw him out. Why should we suffer financially because he lost his mind? So the officer was nice enough to call her for me and he told her that if she didn't stop texting or calling we would press charges. He called me after and told me she was crying and said she would stop and would be changing her number.I also emailed her the link to an article I wanted her to read. Will attach the link..I know she opened it but not sure if she read it.There of course was no response and I now need to not contact her at all or I can now get in trouble.I can't believe that 8 months have passed and I am still dealing with this nightmare. \:\(
affairs and married people


Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace