Levine-"hold on to your NUTS" is a great read. It has some great insight.
W and I are separated. S9 wanted one-on-one time with W during my parenting time. No arguments from me. I encouraged it. It goes against your instincts, but you need to always ask "What is best for the kids".
W is going to get her space for the next year. I will DB away and let her "find herself".....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712