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It still caught me by surprise and I never imagined her running out of the house like that.


I think you need to for sure got to MC~

When I read this I hear myself talking to my hubby.
Sorry 5 gotta be honest with you.
I think in the back of her mind she knows you cheated and she forgave you and she stayed with you and now you are basically telling her { in her view} that she isnt sexy ans isnt doing it for you ...


So she did what society dictates a good wife should do... and F8cking you til the cows come home is not what good wives do when their hubbys bahave badly.



I am not justifying her behavior hun, I am trying to get you to see where she is coming from.

That is why the basket flew... in her mind she did all the right things and you still want more after hurting her.


Does this make any sense...


I think she needs to heal before you 2 can get anywhere?


IMO~

I am sorry I never saw this before.. really I have been blind.
This is why I get so angry when hubby is hard on me ,, I forgave him and sometimes it still hurts and then he gets mad about a truck payment?
WTF?




see it from her side?


Let me know...
she loves you that is evident and now I see for sure that she is in a lot of pain, even if she doesnt show it.


All my best from the bottom of my heart really, I am so sorry for your hurt... you 2 can get thru this.
~Ali