I don't know what the truth is, but I do know that she doesn't feel guilty about it. And her response "I can't date because I'm still married" is bizarre.
What is this, not dating? Just 'hanging out' with a guy who is not your husband.
I guess I needed a real kick in the nuts to get me out of limbo. I'm out. I'm angry and she is not the woman I married, she's some screwed up person.
Here I am trying to save my house, my life, my kids life and even HER's and she's hanging out and calling this 'nice guy'. And a couple hours later he's still there.
Game over. No more Mr. Nice Guy. Just going to be 'decent' to her, nothing more.