I agree with Lola here...if you and your H can laugh and carry on together especially over sex then there's def. something there!
If he wanted, as you say, to get his rocks off then he'd simply use his hand (sorry). Sure its not the same thing but if he wanted nothing to do with you her wouldn't have sex with you. Thats a given.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
