One common topic on these boards is to try to be the best friend you can to your WAS....
I am finding that very difficult. For one, with little interest or communication from the WAW squad, it's tough to be one of their best friends. The second aspect is WAW seems to push everything with the kids to her advantage, always pushing for a little more whether with me or through her L.
However, I have heard from W that she does want to be friends. But the intentions are only 'so we can deal with the kids better'. To me, that's not the reason I want to be friends. I feel like I'm dealing with one of my kids friends parents. I guess it's friendly like that. You may not know them very well, wouldnt tell them much personal, yet you are very friendly. I'm a person with a smaller core of very good friends. These are what I would consider 'friends'.
So, question is, how do you become their 'friend' if she has stated we 'werent best friends', 'I couldnt tell you everything', and we are really not communicating much right now?
