Thank you so much for your words of comfort! I would have to assume my H is the same as your H. It's like you said our sitch's are so much alike.
I know it wouldn't do any good to call. I have not been the one to contact my H at all. He has been the one to send me emails. Of course he is wanting something when he does send them.
Thank you so much, I feel for you too b/c I also know what you are going through. ((((HUGS))))