I know that it is different for everyone but if my M ends I have no intentions of losing that half of my family. Her parents have been my second set of parents since I was 15 and I am not parting with that and they would not want that either. You will have to let each R payout in its own way but don't assume you lose half your family just because your M ends. But don't even worry about that because you are the DB ninja and being the best friend to him that you can be is a great path that could lead to some fantastic results.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current