You are right , very little has changed. W has been quietly distancing herself bit by bit but other than that its business as usual. I have been letting things settle as well , not rocking the boat. Off to the USA in the next few days for a bit of a road trip.
W was a bit more subdued when she called around home yesterday. Made a point of telling me her friend had seem me and an OW at a restaurant ( it was 2 months ago ) . OW is a good friend but no more , not that I am telling W that , if she wants to know she can ask.