If he chooses to come back, it won't be because he's really worried that I am better off without him, it'll be just because he really wants to be with me.
Vigorous nodding of head - yes yes yes...
The grief is very hard to deal with, but I think if we choose to embrace it, it can set us free in the long run. I used to watch funny films and cry all the way through them, I liked the crying and laughing at the same time!
Originally Posted By: iamlost
But no matter what, I have my memories and my love, my choices about how I live my life, the way I choose to treat other people--those can't be taken away. I can always choose to try to be a better person, no matter what life throws at me
I think that in amongst all the rubbish, we find these very dark jewels, those are the lessons we learned. They are dark, because of the dark times we went through, but very beautiful. You will learn so much through this period, about yourself and about your future relationships, hopefully a new relationship with your H.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
