I've posted before about my W's MLC. We are in the final stages of the D and my W has been carrying on an affair for about 6 months that I know.

Today I found out who the OM is and I was slightly shocked. I know this gentleman and NEVER would have suspected my W and this guy. He works in the same company as my W but in an office out of state 1500+ miles away. He is 69 years old, 24 years older than my W.

Incidentally my W's father is also 69 years old and terminally ill. Coincidence?

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final