What an old-timer I'm turning into! Here are the links to my previous threads:

Accepting a rejection....gracefully (12/06/07 - 01/06/08)

The Bumpy Road to Recovery
(05/19/08) - 08/06/08)

It's hard to believe that we're coming up on our wedding anniversary, the date that I had set as an un-official deadline for seeing some form of significant improvement in our relationship, both physical and otherwise: or else we'd throw in the towel. We've both worked out butts off during this past year to make things better between us, and the results have gone beyond what I dared to dream of. We are far from where we'd like to be, and we regress to old habits every now and again and have to re-invigorate our effort to turn new patterns into new habits, but there is no question that this year has paid off, with interest.

Onward, and upward!

Bagheera


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007