(((Julia))) I wish I had words of wisdom for you, but I am in exactly the same position. My H doesn't seem to want to speak to me either, unless he has not heard from me. So, in that line of thinking, I think staying dark may be a good thing. It gives your H time to think, time to miss you. It is so hard, isn't it? I mean, we know what we want. We know how our hearts feel. It's convincing the DAM that we are right? Right?
Unfortunately, we all know it doesn't work that way. They need to figure it out. It hurts, and it's hard, but in the long run, I think it will be worth it.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..