"The wives of men who have too much of the 'bad boy' in them wind up on the OTHER forums here (not the SSM forum), while the husbands who have too much of the 'nice guy' in them wind up here, reading my long ad nauseam posts."
You may have forgotten one personality who would eventually end up in this forum -- the wives of men who have too much 'nice guy.' You may not believe this, but I do. I think I fall into this category. In my case, I like them both.
Dear Bagheera,
Since I can't seem to post on YOUR thread, I have posted my response here, hoping that you will come visit. I have only been able to read thus far (7/9) @ 8:50 p.m. on your "Rocky Road" thread, which is locked BTW. When I got to your wife's bedroom list, I had to stop reading for half the day because I was way too emotional. Anyway, I'm still reading and hoping you're doing well.