Letting God Take Control Part 15

[MidwesternGirl]

PH,

I'm sorry you are having a hard day, I am also. We should be together & just have a good cry together!!

You know, my H was jealous of the dogs too & my attention to them. He felt like I put them before him. I didn't but that is what he thought.

It's hard to know what to pray anymore. He got remarried & everything was so quick. How could he just stop loving me, as I said on my thread, I didn't imagine his love for me, it was real.

(((HUGS)))

from charlyne's Q&A which I highly recommend you visit:

Q4: My husband just called to announce he has been remarried! I am devastated. What do I do?
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Kim responds:
I know from personal experience how devastating a remarriage can seem. But sometimes God has plans that we don't see or can't even fathom. And as difficult as it is right now, we have to hang on to that scripture from Romans 8:28 - "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him who have been called according to his purpose." Paul writes about ALL things - not just the good things, or the easy things, or the nice things - but ALL things.

The guilt and failure you are feeling are from the enemy. He would like nothing better than to sow seeds of anger, self-doubt and guilt in our lives. Then maybe we will let go of our promises from God. Then maybe we will give up our stand for a restored marriage and a healed family. Then maybe he will have one more family that God has called under his belt.

You have been called to a very important assignment - to stand in the gap for your loved one; to pray for his salvation and repentance, to be that angel as mediator at his side. Your continued, faithful prayer can make the difference for the one you love.

"Yet if there is an angel on his side as a mediator, one out of a thousand, to tell a man what is right for him, to be gracious to him and say, 'Spare him from going down to the pit; I have found a ransom for him'- then his flesh is renewed like a child's; it is restored as in the days of his youth .He prays to God and finds favor with him, he sees God's face and shouts for joy; he is restored by God to his righteous state." Job 33:23-26.

I know this is a tough time. I know you are hurting and hurting for your children as well. Let God be your Blessed Comforter tonight. I pray that He will shower you with His comfort and strength as you continue this journey.

These answers have developed in response to questions we have received over many years. May you consult the answers with an open Bible and an open heart, thus allowing God's Holy Spirit to help you find the truth.