Yes, you should let people know how this turned out for you and your H.
You said put a hot coal under my H--yeah, well, I think he may need a boat load of those as he seems to have taken 20 steps backward. I don't know any more.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
It seems like your h is taking steps backwards. Remember what Snodderly said to me when that happened to my h. They need to do this to complete their journey. This is the hardest part for us. We get frustrated and impatient. You are doing well.
What do you want me to say about me and my h? It's wonderful! I hope and pray that you all find the happiness that I have. It was a long road but it was well worth it when it was all over.
Happy anniversary YR. It's posts like yours that keep us going. I too want to have my h back and build a better m. Hopefully I will one day get that opportunity.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I'm having an emotional day too! And yes, I want my H back. Since he is M again, it doesn't look like that is going to happen. I didn't imagine his love for me & it grew stronger as the years went by, he said that himself that he loved me more than the day we got married. Now, so quick!
YR, I'm very happy for you. Happy late anniversary. Please keep posting.
This journey is much like pregnancy. It takes awhile to get there, and then the very painful part happens and you just cannot wait to get thru it and finally, you give birth and you have no more pain.
You actually forgot the pain you once felt.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I know you want your h's back. We wouldn't be here if we didn't. SF is right, this is so emotional, painful as you both know. My heart still hurts for you that are still struggling. I remember those days even though they are fading.
