Sorry PH you are struggling today. I know it's hard when you have to handle everything yourself. Find your comfort today in God.

Glad the boys e-mailed you. They are thinking of you.

Sooners, your w can't see the changes right now. She is still so focused on herself. After 2 years my h is still blaming me. It's easier to blame others than it is to look inside yourself. Keep doing what you are doing and remember the changes are for you not your w. If she notices then it's a bonus.

My h is coming over today. He has been depressed PH and then brings his mood over here. I don't know how to help him.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"