No, he does talk to her on the phone and she's sent her photo and of course she runs some freakin' charity to help African kids and spread world peace and her father was some golf great, or so she says, which just feeds into my husband's obsession with the sport.
Oh, how obnoxious!!! Some sainted golfer's kid who helps African kids and then trolls online for a needy man whose marriage (and child!) she can destroy.
Well, you hang in there, detach and take care of YOU (and your child). When he's online you go out and do something special. Do "real world" things, stuff with your D, really fun activities, that he might regret not being part of.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
