Thanks for your words of encouragement. I'm still just not sure as I'm baffled that it stresses him out to be with me, even when we are not fighting, and are getting along. In fact I was in a separate room with the door shut last night when he asked me to check on the cab again as it was stressing him out not to have the alone time. He said he'd "gotten used to being alone", so I just don't fathom how space over the next 2 months can bring us any closer, I just think it will set him in his ways even more! The intentions to make things work may be there, but if he can't be around me, I don't know how it will ever work. I am really, really scared about these next 3 weeks in particular. I guess the good thing is that we have a joint phone session with a DB coach soon, so maybe this will help him to get some good ideas, and will help me understand more of where he's coming from.
OK thanks again! I am going to respond to your post now :).
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
