Hi (((Abbey))). I do so hope for you that this is an itty bitty baby step forward. I'm the LBS and I made the accusation of OM which my W denied. Then, I thought to myself, what if I'm wrong?
So, in light of my snooping and accusation, my W said that's it. However, at our last MC, I got her to postpone a D for 6 months and agree to come back to counseling next month.
I'm hopeful for you also because having read your thread, I too can take heart in the change.