Rob, Not to be rude , but i know you have paid your lawyer much money, but he/she has done nothing to protect you, this is the most absurd situation I have heard of, you have no rights, but must sell the house and bear the cost of preparing it for sale, your W has the right to call all the shots with visitation, hate to say it but something is very very wrong with this picture. We all , on this board . take our time to respond to what we think are real situations, but I have to say,even with Arizona Law, something is very very wrong!!!!!