OK, H took the kids out with OW and one of her Ds, her D14 to the movies today (Wow 2 really crappy parents they're perfect for each other)! Then he came over and left a note complaining I had bought S14 new shoes (they were too small for him) and asking me to think about how we will pay for the fridge payments he is buying at my L's request (ours has been leaking for a year). I was thinking I would email him something like: Yes, I replaced the 2 or 3 month old running shoes b/c S14 said they were tight and uncomfortable for him. I had to buy him larger shoes, so I guess we have a difference of opinion on that. I don't think it is my place to give you financial advice re: the refrig payments. Maybe an accountant or financial advisor could help you? Good luck! Is that good or changes or what do you think? Well, I had a lot of fun today until H came over anyway! \:\) Karen

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