Hey Sweetie! I have not forgotten about ya. Have had a lot of computer problems but hopefully now everything will be okay. So good to hear you will be fine health wise. I think your W likes for you to joke and play with her like that and you and she needs more laughter. You have had a hard year, but I think you two are going to make it. Just don't over-load yourself and get so in debt that it causes major problems in the M. There will be problems of some sort as long as we live and don't seem to be fairy tale marriages, however, yours has certainly improved. As long as we can stay healthy, happy and have peace.....it is all worthwhile. You take care over there. Buy something cute as a surprise for your W. Maybe even something that would make both of you laugh.
Talk to ya later.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!