My Hs spending has been on holidays (9 since he left at the last count). The OWs engagement ring must have cost him a pretty penny as well. It's platinum (unlike mine) has rocks for diamones (unlike mine) of which there are three (just like mine). Apparently the symbolism for three stones is past, present and future or as I have also heard it phrased 'the love you had, the love you have and the love you will have'. He's also paying for her university education (after denying me the ability to study and telling D18 that she can borrow money cheaper as a student so not to ask him for any).
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15