No Amy it is making me think there is another man or something.

You know part of what all of this is. Is she can't handle the kids. They drive her nuts and she can't discipline them.

I texted her at 2 to see if the kids wanted to be with me. She said they were being good. Then she pulls this crap this evening. I'm sure she know the whole time she was going out tonight.

Why doesn't she just be a friend and tell me.

I called her. Son answers. I said do you want me to get you guys now. The phone goes forever blank. I'm losing my mind. A five minute voice mail from son unaudible. I said please put your mother on after waiting seemingly forever. I ask her if she wants me to come get them now. She says yeah. Are they staying over with me. I can't understand her. I ask if she is running water. She says she is brushing her teeth.

I'm loosing my mind with her. Brushing her teeth on a cell phone. You can't hear anything. I ask her to stop brushing her teeth turn off the water and talk to me for five seconds so we can end this. I said are you going out, are they staying with me overnight. She says yes, but takes forever to say yes. I said ok please have them bring Church clothes. I'm still a little hot because she is still brushing her teeth. She is so damn rude.

Why is she so afraid to talk to me about simple things.

I pick them up. She comes to the door. In her bath robe. She says They are all yours. They are so bad. Good luck with them.

I said I know they are a challenge at times.

Have a nice evening. Then I give her the finger movement and tell her to come closer. She says what I'm in my bathrobe. I go closer and kiss her cheek.

She seems so nice. I think these kids just drive her nuts, and the condition she is dealing with is making everything difficult.


Why is she making everything difficult between us? Why does she want me to snap out? Why is everything a secret?