Are you IRMAT or IRMAC?

You are basing things on assumptions, you assume too much.
You think you know what your Husband thinks.
You think you know what OW thinks.

All you need to be thinking about is yourself and your own actions.

I asked you to make a list of the things that need to change in your life.

Your goals.

Your character issues that need to be tweaked.

Being still......sit on your hands, duct tape your mouth and think about something other then your Husband.

Begin by reading something edifying, perhaps the Bible or The Power of A Praying Wife or even DivorceBusting.

You came her to bust your Divorce.

It is time for some action.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.