I'm certainly trying to be a new me, but I do not understand how we can ML and literally 60 seconds later he's telling me how there is no hope. I try and tell myself it's because sex is just sex to men, but he's always told me he needs to feel emotional connection to have sex with someone. What the hell??
At any rate, I'm so freakin' wishy washy about everything. One minute I'm done...the next I'm hoping he'll call.
Hi there CW. I'll give you this man's perspective based only on this post. I read your H behavior as that there is just a little bit of hope and his 'there is no hope' is his way of protecting himself and possibly you. See, if he didn't care at all it was just a booty call and you were available, then he would say nothing. On top of that is his assertion that he also needs an emotional connection. No, I read it that there is some small hope and that he is confused or uncertain. So, knowing next to nothing about any of this, I would recommend continuing on with what you are doing and if you are able, keep the door open a little while longer.
