She must have flipped out. She can't do this. Call your Lawyer back. You already know what your rights are and if you try to be the nice guy then the next time she'll be worse.
It's really weird because they want out and then they act as if we're screwing them. Anger at this point is really directed more at themselves than it is at us. It took me a longggggggggggg time to understand that, and it was only recently that my ex confirmed it.
Man she need to take a chill pill ....and you need a good stiff drink! (just don't go in the cooler. I'm not sure where all of the beer went. Maybe goldylox drank it again..yeah, that's it!)