AmyC, stop making excuses and do the intervention. Family. Your kids. You. Your parents. Forget about the morons he drinks with he will not listen to them.
If you had even the faintest real clue about my sitch, you'd know I have done every single thing that is within my power, Phil.
And when you finally exhaust all of your human efforts, perhaps you too will 'get it'.
Maybe.
Don't you even find it the least bit curious that you get thrown off task even by OUR sitches?
That should make it glaringly obvious to you that the enemy will indeed use anyone and anything to keep you distracted and offended.
Even another believer.
Eyes straight ahead, Phil.
Get on - and stay - the friggin' course!
Or prepare yourself to spend years in this place.
He won't mind your griping, moaning, kicking and screaming one bit.