I'm trying to make sure this separation isn't all hunky dory. I have detached from her. It is the hardest thing. No real communication between us as well. I hate it. But it is a 180 for me to be this way. I have tried EVERYTHING else. I keep wanting to invite them to the house for dinner or something. She actually invited me to stay for dinner last week sometime when I was visiting the kids, but I declined it. I was trying to be strong for myself. She can now tell that I am uncomfortable at her apartment while she is there.

Especially since I think that OM is funding her to buy all her new sh*t.

I can't control that. We are going to split time with our kids. Hopefully having the time without the girls will make her think a bit, but who knows.

And don't animal sit for her.

I know it sucks when it feels like we're having to play games with them, doesn't it? Trying to make them see us.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."