Things are still going to be up and down for a long while, I would imagine... Lisa, you, myself,... (Where's Michelle?)... The sad truth is that he got his way... got me to budge, now he can be satisfied with that for a while. Next time, I might not be available.
I rewarded "good behavior" by doing a little something extra for him that I knew he would like with regards to the business stuff we still have to contend with. He treated me with respect at the movie, like he once used to... I'll then in kind do something considerate and thoughtful.
Even some family members have said they've noticed a diff in H as of the last few weeks. Shines of the "old" H. One wasn't surprised with the news we went out.... even a few other family members have come out and said they believe me (FINALLLLLLLY!!!!)... that there was no affair on my side.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.