Sooners, The only thing you can change is you. Change for you, not for her. I know - same old cliche. It is true. We only can control ourselves.
How come she doesn't see the change? I don't know. Maybe she doesn't want to see the change and doesn't want to admit it out of fear of being hurt, or whatever.
My H admits seeing my changes and yet chooses to stay away. So, just because they see change doesn't mean they change their mind. Perhaps, they don't trust the changes to be permanent. Perhaps they are waiting to see if they are permanent. Perhaps the Enemy is preventing them from coming hom by telling them lies about our changes.
Hang in there. We need to be patient and wait for God's timing. It's hard I know. That's what I try to remind myself about.
