the main problem is he feels bad about himself and thinks I will be better off without him. Well, if I show him what looks like me being completely better off without him, isn't that helping to convince him of that more?
I think sometimes our partners say that we will be better off without them, but I don't always think they mean it.
I don't know for sure, but I bet your H would be more attracted to someone who was happy and confident, rather than someone who 'needed' him. You wouldn't be showing him that you are 'better off' without him, you would be showing him that you would be ok without him, if it came to it, which is how it should be.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
