But if you really want a laugh, this post is for you...
H tells me he had his first row with gf this week. Why? Because he was acting out (Sex Addicts Anon speak for 'behaving like an addict') when he was with her!!!!!!! They went out and he spent far too long 'chatting up' another girl at the bar... She had been watching him closely the whole time, and commented on how much eye contact he gave this woman.
And what did he say to me?? He was surprised to find he was acting out with someone young (23), attractive and in a new R, he thought the problem was mainly within our marriage!
Him - 'I suppose I am still acting out then, even though I'm not in a relationship with you'
Me - 'No s**t Sherlock' (I figure God allows me one very well chosen swear word a year, and that was it)
But I only smiled once he had left the room...
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08