I hope you know that your forgiveness & strength through dealing with the fallout of your husband's SA was a huge inspiration to me when I felt weak, so you are very, very far from a DB fraud!
That's one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me here, thank you so much!! (((iamlost)))
I have read half of this thread so far, it is very good. Will finish reading it after I have posted today's stuff (before I forget what I was going to say!).
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08