I have been asking God to help me with my decision as to getting divorced..I cant stand the pain of it any longer...I just found out that they still speak and possibly still see each other occasionally...he lives 900 miles away.and when I heard they were still in contact it took me back to the first time I heard of it..
In my heart if he is still seeing her ...it pours more salt on my wound... I feel if we divorce maybe I can start to heal.. I will no longer be his wife.. I will keep praying and believing for a miracle but for now I think it is what I need to do to heal.
Call me stupid or naive but since he had not divorced me like she wants him too... I thought she was smart enough to stop her relationship with him.. but who knows what he is telling her..that he has filed for divorce just waiting on the court date etc.etc.etc,
She must be in lala land herself..if it was me I would want to see some sort of papers that he had filed how stupid she must be....or really in love????? they say love is blind and I know for a fact that it is or we would not be holding on for dear life for all the WAS.
I have to pray for an answer form the Lord... because right now I feel like divorce is the only option..
I did call her and asked her not to call my husband while our daughter was there visiting her Dad to alt least wait until she left.. Daughter called me Tues nite she saw her # on the caller ID and she knew he still spoke to her
She now wants to come home..says she hates her Dad and when she looks at him it makes her want to throw up.. that is how I got the # did not discuss nothing else just to stop the calls till our daughter lefther dad's..
you know what she said I REALLY DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY TO YOU ... DONT ALL ME AGAIN THEN SHE HUNG UP...
told him that I called her and just said what I needed to say. of course he was mad...oh well s**t happens.
I think I am done guys..... I know only I can decide what is best for me but like some input...
