Was talking to W dad today. He had lunch with her the other day and said she was 'delusional'. Said she blames everything on me because she couldn't live with a 'drunk' any more. Says that she's 'growing in new directions', she isn't the same person she was 22 years ago, etc, etc.
Her dad said that she completely forgets that she ran off to go screw her 'soulmate', put me through hell, I didn't drink for 11 months during that hell, and eventually took her back.
Yes, I was drinking nightly for whatever reasons, mostly because of the emotional pain I have been in. I take responsibility for that. I also take responsibility for her not really doing anything to help me. If this is all true then while I don't deserve this, it certainly explains her perspective.
Wedding vows don't seem to mean anything any more.
