Soooo true bethie... funny stuff. My sister and I had a chuckle this morning b/c X was telling her X about how he comes home at night from working all day on the remodel and X is exhausted and OW has been watching the kids all day so she's like 'i'm outta here'... we laughed. Guess maybe now he can appreciate that he had it ok...
BH, fine mex food sounds pretty darn great any time! I might round up some margs later tonight.
Things just feel icky right now... and it's stressing me out. My BIL just moved out of twin sister's house. Ick. I found out cuz he left me a voicemail crying. Ick. It was on my non-anniversary... it is all bringing back so many unpleasant memories. And I find myself being distrustful and skeptical of everything as if someone here is lying and there is another person in the wings.
Anyway, it hurts. I'm at a loss for how to proceed. BIL was the prez of my fan club when I went thru my sh!t so I hate that I feel disloyal by supporting him at all.
I can only imagine how this is tearing you apart. Although it sounds as if your BIL is the one who needs a shoulder now. If it were me I know I'd want to return the favor.
Things will come out. You can bet your sorry butt on that. Time will tell.
I'm sorry the crud. I can imagine how that's gotta feel. I think maybe this is a good time to really look closely at what you had to do to a few years back for yourself. Look at how you'd like to have handled things that weren't so hot, or how you did extraordinarily well at things that went great. Then, I think maybe applying some of those things to yourself, and to your family, might help you feel a little more in control and decisive on what YOU want. (You do know it's still about you, right?)
