I'm only speaking for myself here, but I'm somewhat of a busy body and especially now in my current R sitch I am trying to keep my mind off of things when I can and I wonder if he is too. It maybe he just wants those things to distract him from the current R situation and not as further steps to leave. Granted I too am the LBS, but my W has pretty much only taken essentials this far. Just my 2 cents, for what they are worth.
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do