Hey Matty....just letting you know about the being D'd and friends thing....VERY true....and I am the one who tried to keep it civil....but nope....it had to do with money and a few other things.....I feel you can't be friends and D'd......maybe in the movies (and not even then sometimes!) but in real life?....I'm gonna say...VERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRY hard.......it tooks two for that to work.....first time saying this...maybe in a long time...but that's IMHO!