They are dealing with a lot of emotions, and none of what happens when they drop the bomb is as simple as they expect. So they are confused and unhappy and miserable.
Oh well!
I remember this very wise woman who will someday give us all legal advice telling me this: our WAS expected to be happy because they left. Now, they aren't, but we are doing well, and it is a blow to their ego. I mean, look at all of us. We are a bunch, and we are SURVIVING and doing well for the most part. Sure, we have our ups and downs, but we are okay. Your W is the same...she probably wonders how come he gets to be happy? He didn't want this in the first place!!! But I am still miserable?
I told my mom this morning that i hope our house sells and i get get my own space.. it's getting old seeing the W everyday in a way.. everyday that passes I lose a little more interest in her.. weird?
