ITH - this all sounds good...just go with the flow...if he is open..you go with it..if he huts down just say ok...and move on. dont react or prod.

also- my H really started first with opening up about work...he started the topic and i just listened and validated when he would say something...i would reflect what he said or just listen and be very attentive.

i think you have said lots of good things- and a little nookie aint so bad!

now do what GH says and maybe head out for a while on u r own- not easy! i know \:\)

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