I discussed the box with my C. He thought it was completely abnormal to have a padlock on a box prominently displayed in OUR home and said he'd probably take a hammer and smash it.
**** He gave me a big grin and said he was so impressed with my determination to maintain professionalism and a lack of vindictiveness. And then he said, "you are an amazing woman." Guess what? I believe him!
I think your C sounds wonderful and very perceptive and smart! Glad to hear sounds like you are sounding strong! I'm glad some others realize how special you are--and hopefully soon you will be in a R with someone that realizes that too!!! Karen