[quote=suga]It's like she is trying to compete. I hope not. Its not a competition.
I have that too. My H is a "Disney Dad". I forgot who here told me about that term, but really good description for H. Takes them to restaurants, movies, and buys them gifts and toys every time he sees them. I don't have the money so we eat at home, but I do try to take them to every free and low-cost fun. I'm thinking they do it out of guilt--they know they aren't being the best parents they could be (we won't even talk about their H or W skills!) So they think the gifts and toys and $$ they spent helps make up for their weaknesses and it probably alleviates the guilt a little.
I just try to be happy for the kids, although I have emailed H about spending so much $$ on the kids saying in a nice, friendly way how it might be better for the kids if they do some lower-cost things occasionally. H agreed and has been doing a little bit better, but still a little bit Disney Dad.
H4H, hope you have a good weekend!!! Are you joining us on our Chick Flick Night tonight (Nanny Diaries)? Feel free to join but I understand if you don't want to!!! Karen
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