CL-I was irritated when I read this post. Like when you have a rock in your shoe. Your W has some unrealistic expectations, and I'm sorry she feels the need to compare you to anyone else. I get the spotlight thing, really. "She said that I should have addressed my anger at her at another time, and not on the dance floor." BS. I hope she said it nice, because I'd be hoppin' mad if someone tried to tell me when/where to address my anger. Not like I'd make a scene, but if I'm angry, telling me I 'should have' is going to spark a larger argument. ((CL)) The dance R sets the tone for the M R, if that is what you agree to. It's not set in stone. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
