The most my H ever spent on ow was two nights at a nice hotel!!
About a month ago he and I were talking about things he and I could do together and I said he can take me to a nice hotel for weekend but not that one. He started laughing and so did I.
Maybe it is a blessing we don't have money. I cannot imagine having to pay all of that debt!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19